Oh it definitely sucks. But it definitely got much better for me once I just saved myself the "open minded" attempt at dating and just eliminated anyone who wasn't a gun toting conservative. It's made it so much less frustrating despite the tiny selection left once I do that. So either I date someone with potential or I'm content doing my own thing. Fuck that opposites attract shit...not these days where politics divide us all Saturday night, we spent our evening buying new pistols