Irish Mike
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I always thought FarmersOnly was spoof. 
Don't fuck it up., Juggs!
Don't fuck it up., Juggs!
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52:20 said:
42, just a couple weeks younger than me.
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Irish Mike said:I always thought FarmersOnly was spoof.
Don't fuck it up., Juggs!
Nope. I had to try something new. Figured that was the only way to find a non liberal
Tons of regular country folk in cities on there. Thank you to my therapist for suggesting it 
Panamag8or
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Birkenstocks... means she has bad feet.
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Half cuban52:20 said:
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Panamag8or said:
I hope not, I already hate feet as it is. Feet are so fucking gross no matter how nice they are
birkenstocks are relatively in, and for someone on her feet all day, are a nice house slipper. Lay of the judgement fellas.
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It's the TGB wayEvil gator said:
ufgators68
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She's probably got a pickle surprise for you.
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ufgators68 said:
Well she didn’t say she gave birth to her kids, only that she has kids :scratchchin:
Damn, I missed it.
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Ok, for doc…
Wow. She's way out of your league. Good luck!
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Managed to end up single on Valentines day (actually it started the night before) 
Irish Mike
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You be you, Juggs. 
always a financially good idea.
its always weird to me couples do this stuff. Perhaps because my stalkery ex was so into it, after him I never really cared about manufactured holidays or gifts. Most flowers make me sneeze.
I am bummed we didn't get sushi for my birthday, I chose a place we both like which was a tactical mistake
its always weird to me couples do this stuff. Perhaps because my stalkery ex was so into it, after him I never really cared about manufactured holidays or gifts. Most flowers make me sneeze.
I am bummed we didn't get sushi for my birthday, I chose a place we both like which was a tactical mistake
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Well actually yesterday was going to be her treat.
The schedule was just maddening. Everything was great when we were together, but for the most part, Tuesday was the only day we were kid free and she didn't work. But shit always comes up with her, too busy of a life. The friends mom died, daughter asked her to come over, this or that. Ending up being 3 hours a week isn't much of dating. The last couple weeks she had a day trip planned for Valentines day, leave in the morning. Then Monday night her daughter (who's f'n 20 and she still acts like she's 6) asks her over for brunch yesterday. So she thought it was no big deal to push a day trip from leaving in the morning to leaving at fucking noon. And she refuses to tell her kids she's dating because they're still butthurt over their dad leaving a fucking YEAR ago. And if her kids are as awesome as she said, her daughter never would have asked her to rearrange plans on Valentines day. But she doesn't say shit, she just moves our plans around which turned into argument about how plans are made to be brokena nd should always be fluid and if you if she has the ability to have all of us in one day, why shouldn't she?
For a therapist, she's incredibly naïve when it comes to things like....Hey, if I make a commitment, I should fucking stick to it. Plans are meant to be broken is an excuse to act selfishly or not be reliable. And she can't see my viewpoint. And she always turns back to, "I will NEVER say no to my kids because you never know when you'll see them again". Oh FFS, she's an adult and you spent the day with her last week on our only actual day together, so that shit don't fly with me. So I'm the selfish bad guy for expecting people to keep their word when they say shit like "firm" or "definitely" when plans are made.
Neither one of us handled it well. And it sucks, she's the first one I could have seen myself with long term, but that one flaw is a pretty big fucking flaw. I'm pretty rigid when it comes to plans, disrespect, etc. The smart, rational thing would have been to suck it up and deal with the nonsense until she's ready to tell her kids, then it wouldn't be an issue. But what my brain knows is rational and what comes out of my mouth are not always the same thing.
The schedule was just maddening. Everything was great when we were together, but for the most part, Tuesday was the only day we were kid free and she didn't work. But shit always comes up with her, too busy of a life. The friends mom died, daughter asked her to come over, this or that. Ending up being 3 hours a week isn't much of dating. The last couple weeks she had a day trip planned for Valentines day, leave in the morning. Then Monday night her daughter (who's f'n 20 and she still acts like she's 6) asks her over for brunch yesterday. So she thought it was no big deal to push a day trip from leaving in the morning to leaving at fucking noon. And she refuses to tell her kids she's dating because they're still butthurt over their dad leaving a fucking YEAR ago. And if her kids are as awesome as she said, her daughter never would have asked her to rearrange plans on Valentines day. But she doesn't say shit, she just moves our plans around which turned into argument about how plans are made to be brokena nd should always be fluid and if you if she has the ability to have all of us in one day, why shouldn't she?
For a therapist, she's incredibly naïve when it comes to things like....Hey, if I make a commitment, I should fucking stick to it. Plans are meant to be broken is an excuse to act selfishly or not be reliable. And she can't see my viewpoint. And she always turns back to, "I will NEVER say no to my kids because you never know when you'll see them again". Oh FFS, she's an adult and you spent the day with her last week on our only actual day together, so that shit don't fly with me. So I'm the selfish bad guy for expecting people to keep their word when they say shit like "firm" or "definitely" when plans are made.
Neither one of us handled it well. And it sucks, she's the first one I could have seen myself with long term, but that one flaw is a pretty big fucking flaw. I'm pretty rigid when it comes to plans, disrespect, etc. The smart, rational thing would have been to suck it up and deal with the nonsense until she's ready to tell her kids, then it wouldn't be an issue. But what my brain knows is rational and what comes out of my mouth are not always the same thing.
shes a therapist? Dude they are always cray
Yeah, she's got some issues.
Gatorbreeze
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My x-wife has a PhD in psychology and counseling, and now teaches at UNF. She also holds a prior advanced degree in craziness.
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Evil gator said:
It took her 36 hours but she finally calmed down to try to see my view.
We're still at an impasse over time though. This was the first sign of cray.
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The "I'm so easy going, go with the flow, whatever happens happen" nonsense is extremely common among women. Basically every one I've dated. Literally, all of them.DocZaius said:
It's code for, "It's my way or no way".
The attachment of "momma bear" is extreme though. No clue if it was always that way or just since she was single for the first time since she was 15. She definitely needs some dose of practical reality though and accept that it's ok for her to have a life outside of family. In fairness to her, I have way way more issues that she accepted
But that type of schedule (she works 6pm-2am in Gainesville, sleeps 5 hours, home schools her youngest and does a side job for Columbia County for a total of 1 day off, 2 days without her 6 year old), my reaction may not have been entirely reasonable. I'm not the most patient person...shocker, I know