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Juggs said:
DocZaius said:
Yeah, she's got some issues.
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The "I'm so easy going, go with the flow, whatever happens happen" nonsense is extremely common among women. Basically every one I've dated. Literally, all of them.

It's code for, "It's my way or no way".

The attachment of "momma bear" is extreme though. No clue if it was always that way or just since she was single for the first time since she was 15. She definitely needs some dose of practical reality though and accept that it's ok for her to have a life outside of family. In fairness to her, I have way way more issues that she accepted :lol: But that type of schedule (she works 6pm-2am in Gainesville, sleeps 5 hours, home schools her youngest and does a side job for Columbia County for a total of 1 day off, 2 days without her 6 year old), my reaction may not have been entirely reasonable. I'm not the most patient person...shocker, I know :lol:
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I say y'all just move in together, kids and all, and see what happens.
 
Juggs said:
DocZaius said:
Yeah, she's got some issues.
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The "I'm so easy going, go with the flow, whatever happens happen" nonsense is extremely common among women. Basically every one I've dated. Literally, all of them.

It's code for, "It's my way or no way".

The attachment of "momma bear" is extreme though. No clue if it was always that way or just since she was single for the first time since she was 15. She definitely needs some dose of practical reality though and accept that it's ok for her to have a life outside of family. In fairness to her, I have way way more issues that she accepted :lol: But that type of schedule (she works 6pm-2am in Gainesville, sleeps 5 hours, home schools her youngest and does a side job for Columbia County for a total of 1 day off, 2 days without her 6 year old), my reaction may not have been entirely reasonable. I'm not the most patient person...shocker, I know :lol:
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That's a shitty schedule. She needs to adjust her lifestyle - as a therapist, she must realize it's good to have some time for herself. I'm a little more sympathetic with her reluctance to share her time with you rather than her kids, but still - she made a commitment and you have a right to be mad about it.
 
DocZaius said:
Juggs said:
DocZaius said:
Yeah, she's got some issues.
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The "I'm so easy going, go with the flow, whatever happens happen" nonsense is extremely common among women. Basically every one I've dated. Literally, all of them.

It's code for, "It's my way or no way".

The attachment of "momma bear" is extreme though. No clue if it was always that way or just since she was single for the first time since she was 15. She definitely needs some dose of practical reality though and accept that it's ok for her to have a life outside of family. In fairness to her, I have way way more issues that she accepted :lol: But that type of schedule (she works 6pm-2am in Gainesville, sleeps 5 hours, home schools her youngest and does a side job for Columbia County for a total of 1 day off, 2 days without her 6 year old), my reaction may not have been entirely reasonable. I'm not the most patient person...shocker, I know :lol:
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That's a shitty schedule. She needs to adjust her lifestyle - as a therapist, she must realize it's good to have some time for herself. I'm a little more sympathetic with her reluctance to share her time with you rather than her kids, but still - she made a commitment and you have a right to be mad about it.
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Well she home schools and is there 8:30am-5:30pm. It's not like she didn't actually see her kids. But it doesn't matter. When I made the suggestion that she try to plan things with her kids to mitigate random changes so when she says, "We're definitely doing this", it actually means something instead of just having the caveat of, "unless something else comes along at the last minute".

She refused to budge because she should be able to have the best of everything in one day if she chooses and she's not sorry. So, I stopped being diplomatic and reasonable and told her what I really thought of her attitude. It wasn't very nice :lol: Usually I just say fuck it, wish people good luck, and move on. But I said some shit she really needed to hear about the real world and people. I was amazed at how obtuse and oblivious she was (as y'all said, I was clearly wrong in thinking a therapist would be more self aware). Plus the woman thing of, you type an entire paragraph in specific detail and she hyper focuses on the one sentence that, taking it out of context, and gets defense. No reasoning or compromising. So the evil part of me took a little joy in unleashing some cold hard reality on her.

And now it starts all over :suicide:
 
Tommy said:
I don’t envy you, although cracra women are fun
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Oh, she was the best lay in a very long time. Absolutely nothing was off limits (and she was good at everything)...and she loved pain, a lot of it. Leave welts on the ass level of pain.

Unfortunately that's not enough to get me to put up with the bullshit. In my last text, I may or may not have said that if she doesn't rethink her attitude.....she's going to end up with a 99% chance the guy that she thinks likes her and is awesome because he tolerates being treated like that is really just fucking her until someone comes along that treats his time with respect.

My asshole streak kicked in, which is my defense mechanism. My favorite part is that...now every single woman I end it with, they have to get in their last word. They get mean and nasty and try to hurt you most of the time to make themselves feel better. She probably wouldn't have done that, but after I was blunt with her, I ended with "No need to reply, I won't read it. I don't care what your defensive reaction is or how I saved you the time by revealing who I truly am. You knew I was a love or hate person with no in between. Now you're dead to me like most of the world".

Not a word from her since :lol: Yeah I'm a spiteful person, but it's pretty accurate. Once I'm crossed, they can fuck off and die. And my lack of empathy is no secret.

On to the next lunatic!
 
Irish Mike said:
That clingy Asian ain't looking so bad now, huh?
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God, she was worse. And possibly the worst kisser and lay ever. I could text her and have her here tonight...and the thought crossed my mind just to fuck someone else. But I can't do it...I'd never get rid of her again :lol:

The one upside of re-activating dating profiles, you pop up to people you haven't seen before. Been chatting with 3 women this morning, meeting 1 of them for lunch tomorrow. That's unlikely to work though....I'm not sure I can get along with even a classic liberal :lol:
 
And after a couple days, the therapist says all these flattering things about me and how great I am and any woman would be blessed to have me. Some kind of mea culpa bullshit while not outright saying it.....and still adding in there's no possible way she can change her reliability or availability.

Seriously, did she think that would get me to .....I have no idea what her motives were. Says I was right to end it because I deserved blah blah blah. Of course I told her I didn't end it, her actions did. I just said the words.

I can't be mean, I can't be nice, either way and she still messages. FFS women are crazy.
 
Play it out, worse thing that happens is you & her have a few more rumbles. A lot of compromises on both sides in relationships, but probably don’t take my advice, I married my maid :lol:
 
Juggs said:
FFS women are crazy.
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Took you a while to come to that realization.

My wife is crazy, too. I'm just use to her crazy, after nearly 30 years, don't think I'd want to have to get used to someone new's crazy.
 
Tommy said:
Play it out, worse thing that happens is you & her have a few more rumbles. A lot of compromises on both sides in relationships, but probably don’t take my advice, I married my maid :lol:
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She has no desire to compromise, she made that clear. She thinks there's zero room to compromise, it's black and white, is what it is. That of course isn't true at all, she's just being obtuse.
 
3 days, 3 new dates. First, pretty hot, but the liberal wasn't as nearly as rational as she liked to believe. Plus her life is a train wreck. Second, cute, fit, she thought we had many values in common. Get in person and over the course of a couple hours, she fluctuated between total anarchist and social justice warrior. I can't imagine WTF she thought we had in common other than activities. :facepalm: The last....welp. An addict with several years recovery, but clearly not in the best place mentally. Average build, good sized rack, not bad looking, and the only conservative. She has a bad tooth that's only occasionally visible that was really bothering me :lol:
 
so sad she's taken, she's perfect for you juggs

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebrity/candace-owens-receives-backlash-after-making-controversial-comments-about-a-skims-ad-featuring-a-model-in-wheelchair/ar-AA18XUl5?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=6dc7b7a88a0f4481a505370999c93501&ei=24
 
Evil gator said:
so sad she's taken, she's perfect for you juggs

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebrity/candace-owens-receives-backlash-after-making-controversial-comments-about-a-skims-ad-featuring-a-model-in-wheelchair/ar-AA18XUl5?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=6dc7b7a88a0f4481a505370999c93501&ei=24
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How high is her threshold for tolerating the n-word? I think Megyn Kelly is more in his wheelhouse.
 
WIGator said:
Evil gator said:
so sad she's taken, she's perfect for you juggs

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebrity/candace-owens-receives-backlash-after-making-controversial-comments-about-a-skims-ad-featuring-a-model-in-wheelchair/ar-AA18XUl5?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=6dc7b7a88a0f4481a505370999c93501&ei=24
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How high is her threshold for tolerating the n-word? I think Megyn Kelly is more in his wheelhouse.
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Based on my experience having dated a few conservative black women, I'd guess the odds are good that she recognizes the difference between an N-word and a person who happens to be black.
 
WIGator said:
Evil gator said:
so sad she's taken, she's perfect for you juggs

https://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebrity/candace-owens-receives-backlash-after-making-controversial-comments-about-a-skims-ad-featuring-a-model-in-wheelchair/ar-AA18XUl5?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=6dc7b7a88a0f4481a505370999c93501&ei=24
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How high is her threshold for tolerating the n-word? I think Megyn Kelly is more in his wheelhouse.
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lol who are you?
 
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