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This coparenting thing....

The older the kid gets, the tougher it gets. She fights with her mom, she drags ass in the morning, typical teen stuff. But the bus comes to my house, so she keeps making her mom late for work dragging ass and she has to drop her off here before going to work. The kid doesn't fight with me much, very little really, she's well behaved most of the time. Listening to my ex ranting and things she's told me, i have way more patience with the kid than she does. Now we're at the point where, if the kid is going to make her late, she just leaves her ass at home. That means I have to go pick her up and take her to school.

High school, when the bus comes at 7....fuck that's going to be fun. :lol:
 
Juggs said:
This coparenting thing....

The older the kid gets, the tougher it gets. She fights with her mom, she drags ass in the morning, typical teen stuff. But the bus comes to my house, so she keeps making her mom late for work dragging ass and she has to drop her off here before going to work. The kid doesn't fight with me much, very little really, she's well behaved most of the time. Listening to my ex ranting and things she's told me, i have way more patience with the kid than she does. Now we're at the point where, if the kid is going to make her late, she just leaves her ass at home. That means I have to go pick her up and take her to school.

High school, when the bus comes at 7....fuck that's going to be fun. :lol:
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I can’t imagine. I’m the one who keeps the trains moving in the house and keeps him in check. When I travel, which is a lot sometimes, I have to retrain him when I get back. Takes me days to break him of talking back and back on schedule. It drives me crazy. Nightmare if we were separated and shipping him back and forth. I feel your pain.
 
52:20 said:
I can’t imagine. I’m the one who keeps the trains moving in the house and keeps him in check. When I travel, which is a lot sometimes, I have to retrain him when I get back. Takes me days to break him of talking back and back on schedule. It drives me crazy. Nightmare if we were separated and shipping him back and forth. I feel your pain.
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How old's your boy?

The funny part of the situation is....My ex is habitually late for everything. Always has been. Used to piss me off so bad. We've known for days we had to be somewhere at 1pm, we're still late. Maybe 20 minutes if it was an appt, an hour if it was family. She did what she wanted, dragged ass, got distracted, whatever. And our daughter is the same fucking way. Of course I can't point that out to her and she's getting a taste of her own :lol:

As someone raised on the principle, "If you're on time, you're late"....have no patience for people who are always late.
 
My wife is one of those that waits until the last minute for everything. Drives me insane.

Getting ready for the 2nd Metallica concert. Concert starts at 6, we need to leave at 5:15, to get there in time to get in/get drinks/whatever. She starts trying on her rain suit again, that she doesnt need yet, at 5:14. Then gets mad when I glare at her.
 
Juggs said:
How old's your boy?

The funny part of the situation is....My ex is habitually late for everything. Always has been. Used to piss me off so bad. We've known for days we had to be somewhere at 1pm, we're still late. Maybe 20 minutes if it was an appt, an hour if it was family. She did what she wanted, dragged ass, got distracted, whatever. And our daughter is the same fucking way. Of course I can't point that out to her and she's getting a taste of her own :lol:

As someone raised on the principle, "If you're on time, you're late"....have no patience for people who are always late.
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He's 10, what really aggravates me, and my son is picking up on it, is that I am usually calm cool and collected and get him to do what he needs to do(not without the typical complaining from a kid) and she's shrill as fuck. Not hard to see why he responds better. She's also habitually late, and I believe a lot of times it's on purpose. Had a kids party this weekend and she didn't leave the house till it was starting. You don't do that at a kids party, she knows it. I'm going to do everything I can to keep him from being like that, but standards for dudes are different in that regard. Your daughter will have a husband complaining about her being late I'm sure.
 
ufgators68 said:
My wife is one of those that waits until the last minute for everything. Drives me insane.

Getting ready for the 2nd Metallica concert. Concert starts at 6, we need to leave at 5:15, to get there in time to get in/get drinks/whatever. She starts trying on her rain suit again, that she doesnt need yet, at 5:14. Then gets mad when I glare at her.
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Yeah, it's a woman thing. Always fucking late, always an excuse or something avoidable.
 
52:20 said:
He's 10, what really aggravates me, and my son is picking up on it, is that I am usually calm cool and collected and get him to do what he needs to do(not without the typical complaining from a kid) and she's shrill as fuck. Not hard to see why he responds better. She's also habitually late, and I believe a lot of times it's on purpose. Had a kids party this weekend and she didn't leave the house till it was starting. You don't do that at a kids party, she knows it. I'm going to do everything I can to keep him from being like that, but standards for dudes are different in that regard. Your daughter will have a husband complaining about her being late I'm sure.
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Yeah, it's fucked up when that affects the kid. I get not wanting to go to a damn kid's party....but that's part of being a parent. We have to suffer through that shit.

I can snap or raise my voice with her, but I don't freak out and lose it. I do it just to get her attention when she's not obeying or attention. Just barking her name once usually works. If she tries to argue, a stern "Now" or "When I ask you do something, I mean NOW, not when you feel like it" and that's it. I had to suffer through her constant yelling at her piece of shit son when we were married, so if she's anything like that (and it sounds like it)....ugh.

How much of it is reactionary and why she battles her mom more though, I don't know. The ex told me once years ago that I scared the kid when I raised my voice. My dad scared the shit out of me when I was that age if he raised his voice. My mom yelled, I ignored her and ended up having her whoop my ass :lol: My dad never once spanked me. But here's the real difference I think: The ex's "home" is her dad's house, he's there a lot, but not every day. The ex's dad raised her like a friend, not a daughter. So they fight and yell at each other, I saw it plenty. Very disrespectful if they disagree. Our kid grew up seeing them react like that, which to me basically gives permission for her to treat her mom like that. On my side, she grew up seeing me always respect my parents, get along great, use sir and ma'am, etc. And she gives me very little trouble. We set completely different examples and the kid acts out each one depending on who she's with. I brought this up recently when she was ranting to me (it's becoming more common, for her to call and vent. I never do that).....she didn't outright admit that I had a point and she set a bad example, but I could also tell she knew I was right.
 
Jesus fuck, I work with some sorry fuckers. The boss' service dog took a liquid shit in the doorway to the engineering dept and they didn't clean it up, didn't call anyone to clean it, nothing. Just left it.

I stepped out of my office, 40' away, and could smell it like it was in my doorway. I got the nasty part up and one of the ladies is shampooing that spot.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised. They broke the toilet seat, in their bathroom, and still use it instead of installing the new toilet seat that has been sitting there, on the bathroom sink, for two weeks.

I hate these people.

Boss' service dog really is a service dog. It detects seizures.
 
Found out yesterday that my step Dad has pre cancerous cells in his esophagus (Barrett's Esophagus), and it's too narrow to treat with non invasive methods. He's literally going to have his esophagus removed and his stomach pulled up and reattached to the throat. It's a horrible surgery with an awful recovery. Don't sleep on acid reflux.
 
That's terrible. The shitty part is, as far as I've been able to figure, there's only 2 things that help with bad acid reflux - Drastically changing your diet and the one thing that's nearly impossible that's always "the cure" - Reduce stress.
 
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