Maybe you're just too irresistible.
No there's definitely somethign wrong with them
I already put an end to this one. Cute Fillipina gal....with 3 kids. 3 young kids at home, nope. Aside from being near impossible to make time to date when both people have kids, doing so at a distance is near impossible, and the real big issue? I have no fucking desire, patience, or energy to deal with 3 of someone else's kids.
Kids living at home - 1 kid, of course. 2 kids, ok...hopefully they're my kid's age, give or take (or older), but not a deal breaker. 3? She better have a fuck ton to offer, probably still no. 4? God no.
Side note to rant about - Very few women seem to know how conversation works. Most women whine about "knowing how to hold a conversation", but talking to most of these women is worse than pulling teeth. Everything they type is 5 words or less. In this case, when I told her good luck, but I need someone who communities like an adult. She kept trying to justify it. Ask me anything you want! She volunteered some info, like the 3 kids. I'm the only person she's talking. Blah blah.
So I was feeling generous and told her the problem. You see, to carry on a conversation, one person has to offer something in return. If someone asks a question, you don't give a 4 word answer. You throw in a couple relevant sentences to give that person something to work with. You're not playing 20 questions and using as few words as possible like it's an interview, everyone hates that. If you can't expound and bounce it back to me, the only options are that 1) You're retarded. 2) Toddler level conversational skills. 3) Indicative that you'll never put in any effort. 4) You talk to too many people at once, where one guy kids the conversation and the others get strung along in case your 1st choice doesn't work out. Those are the only 4 options for a 40something "adult".
Ok, I didn't write those options to her
