Well this will come as no surprise, but she's starting to annoy me already. This happened with the Filipino a year and a half ago. They try too hard. Overbearing, clingy, constantly asks annoying questions that it's too early to ask or seeking constant validation. The over-attention is maddening.
Something every asian has done that I've dated is, they can't stop touching. Ok you want to cuddle watching a movie? Fine. But stop stroking my chest, my arm, etc. Holding hands? Her thumb is like tapping mine. It's like a compulsive OCD habit that they can't stop fidgeting or they think we want to be stroked until our skin is raw. After almost an hour of this I start to lose my patience because physically stopping her over and over wasn't getting the message through. Eventually I asked her to stop and she kept doing it 15 seconds later like it was some fucking game. A few minutes of that I said, "Seriously, it's getting fucking annoying". It seemed hard for her to comprehend.
Otherwise she's a very sweet woman, she cares (too much as she's getting attached very quickly), intelligent and only the 2nd woman I've dated who actually makes a decent living (I swear I usually attract women who make like 40k tops).
So I really only have 2 choices here. Cut her loose and go back to the shallow dating pool or try to get her to realize without offending her that it's not necessary to try so hard. Some of it I think is just her nature or culture, the women being overly attentive. Asians are always in big groups, always together. I don't think they comprehend most American's need for some space. Or after sex, hey ...that's enough now. Cool it.
I've come to realize I'm just a miserable twat whether I'm single or someone is around
How much of that will get resolved when my sleep apnea is resolved and I don't wake up tired and feeling like shit every day, I don't know. So let me have it, TGB Brain trust